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Understanding Communications

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Understand communications, how many times are we in conversation with another that the use of words, the use of words in combination, sentences, punctuation,

our very voice itself, the tone, the attitude not necessarily our attitude but the attitude of which something may be said that the individual that we are communicating with or having a conversation with which is entirely two different areas of understanding. Everyone through the voice holds a conversation even when one might talk to themselves but the voice if the individual with a certain voice maybe a very stern voice, maybe a very happy voice, maybe one with a deep voice or a high pitched voice, unless with this individual that you are having this talk with understands your method of communication there can be misunderstanding. Those with deep voices with a volume, they enunciate clearly and even in their spoken word would punctuate or pronunciate clearly. To them they are speaking as they understand what they are saying. Those of us on the receiving end sometimes misreceive these messages and we take what someone says as either light and disinterested or we consider them not paying attention or we take somebody's voice and we do not listen to the spoken word. If the voice is high in the person speaking it might be taken as they are being jovial about a serious situation, if someone's voice is a little lower and has more volume then we as the receivers could very easily think that what that individual says is serious. So not only the reception of the spoken word but the way that it is received upon our ears, so many times it is not how it is transmitted but how it is received.

If there is miscommunication that could very easily result in someone getting their feelings hurt or misunderstanding instructions or the difference between sympathy and not caring, the difference of humor and stern only because of a misunderstanding of understanding. So many conversations go unclosed because there is no communication. Communication is understanding, that is when two speaking individuals understand how the other speaks, the meaning of their voice. Does it contain a constant level or does it seem to have a higher pitch when they are complete or does it have a lower sound when the communication is either open for a reply or closed because there is nothing else to say or to communicate. Both parties, both individuals would receive the proper message from the other.

Many times when we enter into an association or a friendship even a companionship and more so a relationship, a marriage of two individuals most times all it is, it is conversation. If the receiving individual does not understand the speaker then the word, the enunciation, the pronunciation and the punctuation as well as the voice or any one or combination of these could result in a miscommunication. What we all need to do and that is to not just hear but to listen. Some of us even when we speak, our bodies speak more for us than our voice. If someone stands erect and speaks directly to us does that mean that this individual is being stern or if someone has a relaxed manner, is everything they say a joke even if they chuckle or laugh maybe that is their way. We all are different, there are no two peoples alike as there are no two snowflakes but these snowflakes can fall to Earth and they can create beauty, they can create play areas, they all form together, all of these different snowflakes to form a beautiful waterfall. Humans should be as snowflakes they are all different but if you attempt to not just hear but to listen, to understand the individual. Also there is a responsibility of the individual that is doing the speaking or talking to understand the other and how they are going to receive the spoken word. If this individual is light hearted but when it is necessary to be serious, can be serious but still puts off an aura of happiness, joy, jolly even referring to maybe a loss of employment or loss of a loved one. To hear this naturally jolly person speak of a death, persons around this individual that did not know him would say he did not care but he does. The person who is stern and has natural volume speaking to an individual of jolly nature they need to communicate not just conversation.

Understanding, total understanding of what is not just spoken but what is meant. Now this takes a lot of effort on our part, caring how the other person receives the message is the main thing. The transmission of the message is mostly secondary so as we go through life we all need to check our transmitters as well as our receivers to make sure that they are right on frequency, make sure that the volume is high enough to listen to but not too high or too low to hear. We have all I am sure had an area that maybe something was fully explained to us but they did not understand the receiver. The receiver did not understand the transmitter so there was static and that leads to a lack of understanding which could lead to a broken marriage or a relationship, a broken companionship and most and worst of all the loss of a friendship. A companionship, a relationship, a marriage should all be laid on a base, the foundation should be strong, foundation should be able to understand so then in the future, a few months, a few seconds go by and one says to themselves, what do they mean by that. They just meant it for the time, they just meant it for a month or whatever. If we as the transmitter or we as the receiver, we have to have our lines of communication in good working order not only when two people speak and communicate and listen and hear one another. How is someone that is totally uninvolved supposed to just stand by and be an innocent bystander if he receives what one is speaking incorrectly he could take this as a threat to himself or a hazard to someone else. We all have to check our transmitters, check our receivers, your antenna, your lines, most importantly check yourself. If you feel for one second that someone does not understand, give them a chance, ask them if they understand or better still some of us say, I knew what I was talking about but how many people listening to you or hearing your word do not know what you are talking about.

Once in awhile we should run a little test, see how much power you are running on your transmitter, see how your modulation is putting out even see if you know yourself what you are talking about and if we do not know what we are talking about how can we expect others to understand us. I do not know unless you ask it. It takes a little more time, this understanding takes more time than what most of us are willing to give. This is like if you go to pass someone on the interstate in your vehicle there are some geographical locations in this world that if you flash your lights means one thing, if you honk your horn means another. Even sometimes how you sit in your vehicle sends a message, keep this in mind with all we do with anyone else especially someone that is a friend, companion, very close especially a mate, that should be the first cornerstone laid in a friendship. Understanding, do you understand me, I understand you and the main idea of communication, the main idea in understanding is to be honest. If you even consider that you do not understand ask questions, if you know you do not, ask questions. Discussion, understanding communication, consideration they all go together. Keep our lines in good repair and know how your transmitter is working, know how your receiver is working. If there is static check it out. Check it out with other receivers, check your receiver out with other transmitters, make sure the message is being understood..

"Understanding"

..A Necessity In..

"Communication"